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Helping black women heal from the symptoms of love addiction, love avoidance, love deprivation and the trauma that causes it

presented by
BLACK GIRLS HEAL

Coming Spring 2025

A healing weekend intensive for women who want to build love availability, love balance, and their worthiness in the safety of sisterhood 

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Hear from our previous attendees:

 
 
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The Healed and Loved Woman Retreat is for black and multiracial women of color who struggle with over-attaching or under-attaching to people they love (also sometimes called love addiction or love avoidance) who want to heal the trauma that leads to these connection issues to improve their lives, make way for the love that they want and increase their self-love.

Our retreats focus on helping women emerge with tools to feel Balanced, Available, and Worthy.

The event will take the supportive and uplifting feel that our sisterhood community offers while also giving access to private support and coaching.

Attendees will feel loved and supported for three glorious days of healing and sisterhood.

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Our retreats are small weekends of intimate cohorts to ensure each women receives dedicated attention and that women have the opportunity to build relationships and connect to other attendees.

 
 

 Amenities Included:

  • Catered Snacks and Beverages during the workshop

  • All attendee giftings and souvenirs

  • Attendee workbook and curriculum

 Amenities Not Included:

  • Lunch on Full Day Workshop

  • Flights & Travel insurance

  • Housing

  • Transportation to & from airport, if applicable

 

Calling all women ready to MOVE FORWARD in their healing process!

Coming spring 2025

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retreat AGENDA

 

Day 1

All weekend intensives are built around the needs of the attendees and 3 mini workshops are created based on the themes shared at registration.

On Day 1, attendees will have 2 full workshops during their morning and afternoon sessions related to topics of love, trauma, relationship, connection, friendship, sisterhood, family, marriage, self trust, and more.

There will be multiple opportunities for Q&A and coaching related to students specific issues.

 
 
 

Day 2

morning session

On this day, we will continue exploring the requested topics, dig deeper, and answer remaining questions.

Lunch is not included to allow attendees space to sight see with fellow participants or solo.

evening session

Attendees will get an afternoon break to each lunch on their own, site see, rest, and connect with others before we convene for our Pink Tulip dinner, celebrating the love worthiness of each attendee.

 
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Attendee Testimonials & Stories

About Your Retreat Speaker

Shena Lashey

Shena Lashey is a Relational Trauma and Love Addiction Expert, Coach, and Licensed Professional Counselor based out of Houston, TX.

She is the founder of Black Girls Heal, and coaching and therapeutic education company dedicated to helping women of color break the cycles of unavailable relationships & love addiction, heal unresolved childhood trauma and improve their self love to make way for the love they want.

With these specializations, Shena hosts the Black Girls Heal podcast which talks about all things love addiction, intimacy, attachment and healing internal wounds.

She’s created the Healed and Loved Woman Framework™ to help women have a clear path to outline their healing process to become balanced and available to healthy love.

IT’S YOUR TIME TO MAKE A REAL CHANGE!

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faqs

  • Yes, there is a discount for former attendees and Recovery School students. Please either check the alumni options page or email us at support@blackgirlsheal.org for the discount code.

  • No, this event will only be offered in person with no replays or recordings available for interested attendees.

  • Unfortunately, no. Due to the nature of this event, reservations and vendors retained, no refunds will be given for any reason.

  • We are centering our conference on helping women who have in the past or are currently struggling with aspects of these intimacy disorders have full, loving relationships with themselves and others.

    If you do not relate to those issues, you would feel out of place.

  • To register, just click on "Register now" above to snag your spot!

    There are payment plans extended through 30 days before the event for your convenience.

    Extended payment plans may include a small interest charge.

    Monthly payments are automatically withdrawn on the date you register every month until paid in full.

  • Love addiction and love avoidance are intimacy disorders.

    Love addiction is the persistent obsession of a person, relationship, or fantasy and mistaking it for love, using it to self medication.

    Love avoidance is the persistent creation of walls limiting others from seeing and connecting to the real you.

    You can be more of one type or both.

    Both are the result of unresolved trauma manifesting in our adult relationships.

 

 
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