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Helping black women heal from the symptoms of love addiction, love avoidance, love deprivation and the trauma that causes it
 
 

How to pick partners for love addicts:

A Comprehensive Relationship Guide to Breaking Free from Toxic Patterns and Choosing Those Who Are Ready for Love

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Are you exhausted from pouring your heart and soul into relationships with people who can’t or won’t reciprocate your love and care?

It’s a heartbreaking cycle that leaves you feeling drained and unappreciated. 

Those women who love too much often find themselves trapped in this loop, extending their care, empathy, and generosity to everyone around them, only to connect with the wrong people.

WHY? Because they give unconditional love to those who are emotionally unavailable. But how do you find someone who is truly available and worthy of your love?

 

Shena Lashey,

a Relational Trauma and Love Addiction Expert, provides the answers in her guidebook, ‘How to Pick Partners for Love Addicts’.

 
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Learn the 38 signs of availability and unavailability to assess your current and future relationships!

 

An Available Partner is:

♥︎ One who makes you feel safe and seen

♥︎ One who gives generously because they know you're deserving

♥︎ One who see your value and loves you for you

An Unavailable Partner is:

✖︎ One who is neglectful and dismissive

✖︎ One who's giving is inconsistent, non-existent, or depending on what they can get

✖︎ Makes you doubt if you are worthy and does devaluing acts when it benefits them

 YOUR PATH TO MEANINGFUL CONNECTIONS

Our love help book serves as a practical roadmap for those seeking to escape the cycle of attracting emotionally unavailable man/woman. Our insightful healthy relationship guide equips you with the tools to recognize right relationship traits, fostering connections that enhance self-esteem and promote emotional well-being.

True connection begins within; when we become available to ourselves, we open the door to emotionally healthy relationships.

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IN OUR BOOK, YOU'LL FIND:

Our emotionally healthy relationships book guide is thoughtfully structured into three main sections, each packed with invaluable insights and practical advice to help love addicts navigate their friendships/relationships.

✴︎ In-Depth Exploration: Each chapter offers a thorough examination of key concepts related to love addiction, true love, availability, and dynamics, ensuring you have a deep understanding.

✴︎ Practical Strategies: You'll find actionable advice throughout our dating guide, from recognizing red flags to communication, empowering you to make positive changes in relationships.

✴︎ Relatable Examples: Our motivational book is filled with real-life examples that illustrate the principles discussed, making it easier for you to apply the concepts to your own life.

✴︎ Self-Reflection Tools: The self help book encourages introspection, providing exercises and prompts to help you assess your patterns of availability and cultivate healthier connections.

✴︎ Supportive Guidance: With an empathetic tone, our relationship book serves as a companion on your journey toward building healthy relationships.

 
 
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 Remember, you hold the key to your relationship and have the power to transform the dynamic, even if it hasn't always felt that way.

Break free from the cycle of unreciprocated love. Learn to recognize healthy, available partners and transform your relationships.

 

You deserve joy and fulfillment, & IT STARTS HERE

 
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Praise for the Book:

“Shena’s expertise helped me remember my own power and worth. Her contagious positivity made anything feel possible and allowed me the freedom and space to explore even the difficult shadows I’ve preferred to avoid throughout my past. With her help, I now feel like a new person, ready to take on the world and finally discover the love of my life.

I can’t thank Shena enough for the powerful impact she’s had on my life.

I highly recommend this book to anyone ready to make a difference in their life and eager to fall in love with themselves again, and make space to potentially bring another person in to share the rekindled light with.”

– Kelly McElroy

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About the Author:

Shena Lashey is a dedicated expert in relational trauma and love addiction, serving as a Coach and Licensed Professional Counselor in Houston, TX. As the visionary founder of Black Girls Heal, she passionately guides women of color in breaking free from patterns of unhealthy relationships and love addiction.

Shena’s innovative Healed and Loved Woman Framework™ provides a clear pathway for healing childhood trauma and cultivating profound self-love.

Through her compelling podcast, Black Girls Heal, Shena engages listeners in crucial conversations about intimacy, attachment, and emotional wellness. Her transformative coaching programs in The Love Addiction Recovery School empower women with actionable strategies to reclaim their lives, positioning Shena as an inspiring force for change and healing in the lives of those she serves.

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