Are you falling in love with potential instead of reality?
In this episode of Black Girls Heal, I’m diving into three critical mistakes love addicts make when dating—mistakes that can keep you stuck in unhealthy cycles. Whether you're unknowingly romanticizing red flags, struggling to walk away from emotionally unavailable partners, or making dating your full-time job, this episode will help you break free from these patterns.
In this episode, we cover…
03:00 - Why falling in love with potential keeps you stuck
10:45 - The importance of trusting your instincts when red flags appear
17:30 - How making dating your hobby can lead to emotional burnout
24:15 - Breaking the cycle of fantasy-driven relationships
30:40 - Practical steps to build a fulfilling life outside of dating
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